A Missing Ingredient

By Hilary Kinavey, MS, LPC I recently read about the concept of โ€œflowโ€ in the book โ€œOverwhelmed: How to Work, Love, and Play When No One Has the Timeโ€ by Bridgid Schulte and I couldnโ€™t stop thinking about it. โ€œFlow is a timeless space, where one becomes absorbed in...

Unlearning Shame

By Hilary Kinavey, MS, LPC I didnโ€™t know that what I was feeling was shame. It was so old and familiar; seemingly rooted in the very foundation of my being. ย I took shame’sย presence to mean that I had perpetually had more โ€œwork to doโ€, more to fix (and hide...
Weighting

Weighting

You have a reunion coming up. There is a friend’s wedding in the near future. Your family’s beach vacation is around the corner. Your intention is to “lose a few.” Time passes. You go to visit your family. They say “You look great.”...